Monday, November 5, 2012

sitting in a circle


sitting in a circle

Table:31 
1219 W. 31st Street, 
Minneapolis, Mn


9 am to noon
every Saturday 
from November 3rd 2012
to April 2013

attention

please share this invitation
with your friends, partner, family

free - all are welcome
this will be our 5th winter that we do this

when we google "stories"
we get over 1,76 trillion results

sitting in a circle ... is a program
to share ... to listen ... to stories

we sing songs - play music
between stories

please remember:
to get the full benefit of our program 
come ... with little or no expectations
lean back ... just listen 


. . .


a social hour 
will follow this program
respect for privacy is essential
we ask permission: 
- may i ask you a question
- may i comment to what you said
- may i give you a hug

we keep all sharing confidential


. . .


here are the details:


every Saturday

from Nov 3rd


at 9 am to noon

Table:31

1219 W. 31st Street, 

Minneapolis, Mn


. . .


Why sit in a circle?
by Bill Morton 


Because it’s cold outside – yah. 
Because we can’t sail – yah. 
But it’s for discovery. 

Sharing in a circle. 
we can discover one another 
and maybe 
we can even discover ourselves. 

What we really are is hidden; 
it is hidden
in these wonderful bodies of ours. 

We are spirits, 
embodied spirits, 
and we can choose to express them 
through words and gestures 
or keep them hidden. 

Sitting in a circle 
we can share our spirits. 
And our spirits are wonderful, 
maybe more wonderful than we know. 

Perhaps, as in all of nature, 
we may see the divine in each other, 
and if in each other 
maybe also in ourselves. 

What's the purpose? 

Only to experience each other, 
only to experience life, 
to enjoy each other, 
to appreciate each other, 
and maybe appreciate ourselves, 
and find the divine within. 

Let’s sit in a circle, 
tell our stories, 
listen, relate, 
and be filled with awe. 

Hope to see you in the circle, 

Bill 



...


A way of being
By Carl Rogers

A way of being with another person ... means ... temporarily living in their life ... moving about in it delicately ... without making judgments ...

... to be with another in this way ... means ... that for the time being ... you lay aside the views and values you hold for yourself ... in order to enter the other's world ... without prejudice ... a complex, demanding, strong ... yet subtle and gentle way of being.


...



signs of a spiritual awakening
Autor unknown 


An unmistakable ability 
to enjoy each moment.

A loss of interest 
in judging people.

A loss of interest 
in interpreting the actions of others.

A loss of interest 
in conflict.

A loss of ability 
to worry.

Frequent and overwhelming episodes 
of appreciation.

Contented feelings of connectedness 
with others and nature.

Frequent attacks of smiling.

An increased tendency to let things happen 
rather than make them happen.


. . .


~ PLEASE! JUST LISTEN ~

By Ray Houghton

When I ask you to listen to me
and you start giving me advice,
you have not done what I asked.

When I ask you to listen to me
and you begin to tell me why
I shouldn't feel that way,
you are trampling on my feelings.

When I ask you to listen to me
and you feel you have to do something
to solve my problem,
you have failed me,
strange as that may seem.

Listen! All I ask is that you listen.

Don't talk or do - just hear me.

...

I can do for myself; 

I am not helpless.

Maybe discouraged and faltering,
but not helpless.


...


When you do something for me 
that I can and need to do for myself,
you contribute to my fear and inadequacy.

But when you accept as a simple fact
that I feel what I feel,
no matter how irrational,
then I can stop trying to convince you 
and get about this business
of understanding what's behind
this irrational feeling.

And when that's clear, 
the answers are obvious 
and I don't need advice.

Irrational feelings make sense 
when we understand what's behind them.


...


So please listen, and just hear me.

And if you want to talk, 
wait a minute
for your turn
and I will listen to you.


...

greetings, with all our love, from werner

Thursday, October 25, 2012

sitting in a circle ...




Sitting in a circle

please share this invitation
with your friends 

all are welcome

this will be our 5th winter that we do this

when we google

"to learn to listen"
we get over 4 million results


sitting in a circle
a program ... to learn to listen

we DO NOT interrupt the program
we can relate to storytellers
at our social hour afterwards
after the program is over

we sing songs - play music
between stories
please remember:
to get the full benefit of our program 
come ... with little or no expectations 

. . .


a social hour 
will follow this program
respect for privacy is essential
we ask permission: 
- may i ask you a question
- may i comment to what you said
- may i give you a hug

we keep all sharing confidential



. . .

here are the details:
Saturday Nov 3rd  2012

at 9 am


Table:31
1219 W. 31st Street, 
Minneapolis, Mn

Pam and Ben
will share

  
sailing Cricket




 surviving storms in the atlantic

please follow pam and ben on their blogs:
. . .

we continue with 
a social hour
starting around noon - til 1 pm
. . .

Monday, January 30, 2012

a sailing lake calhoun community captures minnesota



Sitting in a circle

please share this invitation
with your friends 

all are welcome

this will be our 5th winter that we do this
 
when we google

"to learn to listen"
we get over 4 million results


sitting in a circle
a program ... to learn to listen

we DO NOT interrupt the programwe can relate to storytellersat our social hour afterwardsafter the program is over

we sing songs - play music
between stories
please remember:
to get the full benefit of our program 
come ... with little or no expectations 

. . .


a social hour 
will follow this program
respect for privacy is essential
we ask permission: 
- may i ask you a question
- may i comment to what you said
- may i give you a hug

we keep all sharing confidential



. . .

here are the details:
Saturday Nov 3rd at 9 am


Table:31
1219 W. 31st Street, 
Minneapolis, Mn

Pam and Ben
will share


  
sailing Cricket




 surviving storms in the atlantic


please follow pam and ben on their blogs:
. . .

we continue with 
a social hour
starting around noon - til 1 pm
. . .

Sunday, January 8, 2012

Wednesday, January 4, 2012

the joy of sailing Lake Calhoun in Minneapolis Mn

you ... your friends and family ... and all reading this ... are invited:

to share your pictures with our group ... sitting in a circle ... we share ... we listen ... with music in between ... we meet every Saturday from 9:00 a.m. until noon ... from November 2011 til April 2012 ... at Joyce UMC, 1219 W. 31st Street, Minneapolis, Mn ... ... ... all our Saturday events ... sitting in a circle ... are open to the public ... are free

to sail with us on lake calhoun ... from afternoon til sunsets ... 7 days a week ... from may 2012 ... til october 2012 ... ... ... you may take pictures ... ... ... all our sailing events ... are open to the public ... are free

greetings from werner